Sexual relationships are an important part of a healthy man's life. Sexual arousal in men can occur under the influence of various factors: the appearance of a woman, erotic touches, memories of past intimacy. The sexual reaction of the stronger sex is a combination of physiological and emotional outbursts that should ultimately cause orgasm.
Signs of arousal in men
Sexual arousal is the human body's response to sexual stimulation. Its strength and duration depend on hormonal levels, well-being, and anthropological characteristics (height, hair color).
The arising desire in its manifestations resembles stress:
- the rhythm of breathing and heartbeat increases;
- pupils dilate;
- voice and behavior changes;
- blood pressure increases;
- muscle tension occurs;
- goosebumps appear on the skin;
- salivation increases.
Excitation process:
- In men, the main sign of sexual desire is penile erection. Blood flow increases the length and diameter of the organ several times. The increase in length is an individual indicator; a small penis increases more during an erection. It straightens and becomes hard. The changes that have occurred contribute to the insertion of the penis into the vagina.
- With the transition to intimacy, a man’s arousal increases, and with it all the body’s reactions. Heart rate, blood pressure and muscle tension increase. The rhythmic friction of the penis against the vaginal walls is a powerful irritant.
- To prolong sexual intercourse, it is recommended to temporarily stop friction to reduce tension. Discharge appears on the erect penis, which is not something to be afraid of. This is a pre-seminal fluid that plays an important role in conception.
- Orgasm is the pinnacle of pleasure; it is the shortest moment of sexual response, lasting only a few seconds. It is accompanied by the eruption of semen. In men, the muscles of the body contract, various sounds may involuntarily escape, and a feeling of euphoria appears.
- The release of semen occurs due to rhythmic contractions of smooth muscles. It starts with small portions, gradually increasing the volume of sperm. After the first tremors, nothing will stop the man from completing ejaculation. Each ejection is accompanied by sexual pleasure, especially in the area of the head and body of the penis.
- After orgasm, the body returns to its normal state. The muscles relax, blood flows out of the penis, and the organ decreases in size. A refractory period sets in, during which the man does not become aroused even with physical impact on the penis.
- The refraction phase is the time that the stronger sex needs to recover before a new erection. It does not have a specific duration and can range from several minutes to hours. With age, this gap increases. The elevation angle of the penis in most cases reaches 60-90 degrees. The maximum peak occurs at 20 years, and after 50 the angle noticeably decreases.
Discharge in men when excited
Transparent viscous discharge from an erect penis is a normal physiological process. Lubrication in men during arousal occurs with the help of pre-ejaculate. This sticky, colorless liquid is released through the urethra in preparation for sexual intercourse or during masturbation.
The source of lubrication is the Cooper's glands. Their secretions contain many enzymes and mucus.
A transparent secret performs several functions:
- isolates residual urine in the urethra;
- partially neutralizes the acidic environment of the vagina;
- lubricates the urethra for the passage of sperm;
- The discharge promotes painless sexual intercourse.
The volume of lubrication varies significantly between men. It can range from a few drops to 5 ml or more. The main purpose of pre-ejaculate is to prepare a favorable environment for sperm. Pre-seminal fluid neutralizes the acidity of the vagina, increasing sperm survival and the chances of conceiving a child.
For partners who prefer to interrupt coitus for contraception, the question arises about the likelihood of becoming pregnant if lubricant gets in contact with them. Studies of the composition of pre-ejaculate have shown that there is no seed in it. But with repeated sexual intercourse, residual seminal fluid preserved in the urethra gets into the discharge.
Lack or excess lubrication in men does not affect their sexual relationships. Any manifestation is individual, there are no strict templates into which you need to fit. Enjoy intimacy without fear or prejudice.
One type of "lubrication" of the head of the penis is smegma. These discharges are not related to sexual arousal. A white, fat-like substance facilitates the movement of the head of the penis as it exits the foreskin. But a large accumulation of smegma causes inflammation of the skin of the penis and other troubles. To prevent this from happening, it is necessary to wash off the smegma daily.
How to excite a man
A man's sexual desire depends on many factors. If during his youth he is turned on by the mere thought of intimacy, then with age this becomes not enough.
To increase a partner's libido, a woman will need specific releasers or stimuli. It is in the nature of males to visually evaluate, so take alluring poses to excite a man, wear seductive lingerie, let your hair down. The sight of naked female organs and signs of desire from a partner also contribute to the emergence of a reciprocal impulse.
Various stimuli help to cause arousal in the stronger sex:
- auditory;
- visual;
- olfactory;
- tactile;
- erotic fantasies, films and more.
You need to approach the awakening of sexual desire in a man individually.
- To do this, it is worth studying his habits and preferences in music, food, aromas, etc. Aphrodisiacs help increase desire; these can be spices, foods, drinks, aromatic oils.
- Among the recognized pathogens of sexual activity: nuts, seafood, grape wine, herbs, herbs, fruits.
- The scent of patchouli oil enhances sensuality and testosterone production. Young people will appreciate the scent of tangerine, verbena or cedar oil; a mature partner will like juniper or sandalwood.
- Before preparing a romantic evening with an aroma lamp, you need to find out if the chosen one is allergic to the prepared aphrodisiac.
- For some men, words can be a powerful stimulant. Certain phrases, from veiled hints of intimacy to outright lust, evoke sexual activity in partners. Straightforwardness is suitable when communicating with a well-known object of passion, and any man will like talking about sexuality or praising appearance.
- Touching of varying intensity is a direct path to arousing a partner. Monotony is detrimental to sexual activity; in order to attract the desired man, a woman will have to resort to experiments.
- You can start with a relaxing massage, gradually covering various erogenous zones and points. Touching breasts and nipples turns on the stronger sex no less than women. Give your partner the full gamut of sensation from gentle stroking and kissing to biting.
- Don't skip the back and buttocks - here a light massage can end with sensitive stroking with nails.
- The inner thighs are another source of pleasure for men; gentle or hard touches are chosen by the partners themselves. For caresses, you need to use not only your hands and lips, but your whole body. A man's stomach is one of the most erogenous zones. Exploring his language will be a real pleasure. The closeness of the partner to the penis, languor and anticipation will quickly lead to an erection.
- The penis is an erogenous zone for every man; its stimulation will certainly lead to the peak of bliss. The most sensitive and delicate part of the organ is the head. Touching and stimulation with her tongue will make your partner forget about everything in the world. Having studied the most sensitive points of a man, you can give him real pleasure.
Stimulant drugs
Why do men experience decreased sexual activity? There can be many answers to this question: stress, past illnesses, age, fatigue and other reasons.
Pills for men to stimulate sexual desire will perfectly cope with the problem:
- The leaders among stimulant drugs are those containing sildenafil. The pills, originally created to treat heart problems, have become a powerful and fast stimulant.
- Medicines containing tadalafil improve erection. The drugs do not affect the functioning of the heart and liver, and also do not change the composition of sperm.
Consequences of excitement without release
Sexual arousal does not always end in sexual intercourse. The body, prepared for release by orgasm, remains in an overexcited state. If such situations are one-time in nature, there is nothing to fear; they do not threaten health and potency.
What does a man feel when he is aroused without release:
- discomfort or pain in the testicles, mild swelling;
- discomfort in the penis;
- tingling in the back of the head;
- lower abdominal pain.
Of these symptoms, pain in the testicles deserves special attention. This organ is important for men's health. It is responsible for the production of testosterone and sperm. If the genitals are healthy, the discomfort will disappear after 4 hours.
Pain in the testicles can be a signal of disease. If their size, density has changed, or the pain has become sharp and severe, then you need to visit a doctor.
Sexual desire is an important part of a person's sexual life. When a man is aroused, it is better to use several methods, alternating their sequence. This will give amazing results.